Secret Santa gift ideas

The best Secret Santa gift is not the most expensive one. It is the one that fits the person and the budget without trying too hard. When you know very little, ask yourself three questions.

• Will they use it up or use it often? Food, drink, a candle or a notebook is easier to enjoy than something that has to find a place.
• Could it embarrass them? Skip anything about their body, age, relationship or habits. Keep humour kind.
• Is it safe for everyone? Many people have allergies, dietary rules or reasons not to drink alcohol, so choose something that works for anybody or ask quietly.

If you can, ask a colleague or friend of theirs what they like. One sentence, such as “do they drink coffee or tea?”, is usually enough to change a generic gift into a thoughtful one. Do not ask the person themselves, or the secret is gone.

The ideas below are grouped by how big a gift feels, not by price, because every group sets its own budget in its own currency. Pick the group that matches your budget, then pick the idea that suits the person.

A little treat, the cheap end of an office exchange. These suit an office exchange or a large group with a low limit.

• A small plant in a pot. Easy to keep alive, and it brightens a desk or a windowsill.
• A good bar of chocolate and a tea bag or coffee sachet. A ten-minute break in a gift.
• A nice notebook. For lists, plans or doodles. Choose plain covers over jokes.
• A set of good pens. Smooth ones that people love and never buy for themselves.
• Fun socks. Everyone wears socks. Pick bold patterns, or plain wool if you do not know their taste.
• A scented candle. Choose a gentle scent such as vanilla, cedar or clean linen.
• A mug with a small packet of hot chocolate. Useful at home or at work.
• A jar of local honey or jam. A small food gift from your area feels thoughtful.
• A pack of playing cards. Good for family nights and long waits.
• A jigsaw puzzle. A small one to do over the holidays.
• A deck of conversation cards. Easy fun for a dinner table or a road trip.
• A bag of really good coffee beans or ground coffee. Ask whether they use a plunger, filter or machine if you can.
• A tin of biscuits or shortbread. Shared at the office, it is a gift for the whole desk.
• A reusable water bottle. Practical, and people use them every day.
• A phone stand or a cable tidy. Small and useful for a desk.
• Hand cream in a gentle scent. Good for winter hands, and easy to like.
• A book of crosswords or puzzles. Perfect for commutes and queues.
• A packet of seeds with a small pot. A gift that grows through the next season.
• A bookmark and a bar of chocolate. A tiny gift for a reader.
• A fridge magnet or postcard set from your town. A small piece of where you live.
• A tub of nice tea. Herbal or plain black are the safest choices.
• Homemade biscuits or fudge in a jar. Cheap, personal and appreciated. Check for nut allergies first.
• A pocket sewing or repair kit. Quietly useful and rarely owned.
• A funny but kind desk toy. Something that makes a colleague smile, never anything personal.
• A packet of good hot sauce or spice blend. For anyone who cooks. Check they like heat.
• A lip balm and a hand sanitiser set. Small, practical and easy for anyone to use.
• A stack of sticky notes and bookmarks in bright colours. Cheerful, and used up quickly.
• A tiny succulent or cactus. Hard to kill, so a safe choice for a forgetful gardener.
• A pack of nice napkins and a candle. A small table treat for someone who hosts.
• A coupon for one homemade breakfast or coffee. Free, and worth more than most things in a shop.

A nice gift, the middle of a typical budget. These suit most friend and family groups.

• A paperback or hardback from an author they like. A favourite author is better than a bestseller list. Ask a friend of theirs if you are unsure.
• A cosy blanket or throw. Almost everyone likes one, and it suits winter or an air-conditioned office.
• A good thermos or travel mug. Keeps drinks hot for hours, and it replaces the old one.
• A set of nice kitchen towels or oven gloves. Plain and useful, so it will not clash with anything.
• A small board game. Pick something quick to learn and good for two to four people.
• A speaker for the phone. A small, rechargeable one for the kitchen or the garden.
• A premium tea or coffee sampler. Lets them try several without picking one.
• A potted herb set for the kitchen. Basil, mint and thyme. They will use them.
• A leather or fabric cardholder. A small item people use daily.
• A good umbrella. Everyone needs one and few people buy a good one.
• A framed photo or a printed photo book. Personal if you know them well. Ask before sharing pictures of children.
• A hamper of snacks and treats. Mix sweet and savoury, and avoid nuts if you are not sure.
• Cooking oil, vinegar and spices in a set. For a home cook who enjoys good ingredients.
• A desk lamp or a warm bedside lamp. A small lamp makes a room feel nicer.
• A pair of warm gloves or a beanie. Good in cold weather. Choose a plain colour.
• A subscription to something short. A few months of a magazine or audio service. Check what they already have.
• A hardcover journal and a quality pen. A gift that sits well with a new year.
• A bath or shower set. Gentle scents. Avoid strong perfumes unless you know their taste.
• A kitchen gadget they will use. A good peeler, a milk frother or a sharp knife.
• A weekend game or a card game set. For friends and family, a small box of hours of fun.
• An indoor plant with a stylish pot. A calathea, a pothos or a snake plant are forgiving.
• A picnic blanket or a beach mat. A summer gift that gets used for years.
• A set of cloth napkins and napkin rings. A gentle upgrade for a table.
• A tool kit for the home. A small set with a hammer, screwdrivers and a tape measure.
• A good tote bag. Strong, plain and big enough for a laptop or the shops.
• A jar candle and a matching diffuser. A pair that suits a room.
• A year planner or a desk calendar. A new-year gift that sits on the desk.
• Wireless earbuds, a basic pair. Useful for the gym, the commute and calls.
• A fire pit snack kit or a braai set. Tongs, a brush and a good set of skewers for someone who cooks outside.
• A framed print of their favourite place. A gift that shows you listened.

A bigger gift, for a larger budget or a close friend. Use these when everyone has agreed a larger budget, or when you know the person well.

• A good pair of headphones. A gift that gets used every day and lasts for years.
• A quality bed linen set. Soft, plain and neutral colours, so it goes with any room.
• A leather wallet or a good bag. Choose a classic style in a neutral colour.
• An experience day. Cooking class, a pottery workshop or a day trip. Pick something you would enjoy with them.
• A night away or a restaurant voucher. A treat for a couple or a friend who rarely goes out.
• A good chef’s knife. One knife they will use every day.
• A weighted or a heated blanket. A cosy gift for someone who feels the cold.
• A coffee machine or a quality grinder. Choose based on how they already make coffee.
• A wristwatch or a smart band. Keep to a style they already wear.
• A warm winter coat or a rain jacket. Only if you know their size and taste.
• A good set of cookware. A pan that lasts, or a quality casserole dish.
• A book box of several titles. Three or four books on one subject they love.
• A portable power bank and a charger set. For people who travel or work on the road.
• A cast-iron pot or a slow cooker. For someone who enjoys cooking.
• A stand mixer or a blender. Check what they already own.
• A camera bag, a drone or a tripod. Only for someone who has a clear interest in photography.
• Tickets to a show or a match. For a friend with a shared hobby.
• A good-quality backpack. Strong, comfortable and sensible, for work or travel.
• A professional cleaning service voucher. A real treat for a busy household.
• A year of a streaming or reading service. Check which they already have.
• A garden tool set and a planter. For someone who loves their garden.
• A pair of walking shoes. Only if you know the size and the style they wear.
• A framed painting or print by a local artist. A personal piece that supports a maker.
• A weekend away voucher. A gift of time, for people who need a break.

• Personal care and clothing sizes. You rarely know the size, the scent or the skin type.
• Perfume and strong scents. Taste varies and some people react to them.
• Alcohol, unless you know. Some people do not drink, and some workplaces discourage it.
• Pets and living things that need care. A cat is not a Secret Santa gift. A plant that is easy to keep alive can be.
• Anything that comments on the person. Joke gifts about age, weight or habits land badly more often than you expect.
• Gifts that need a lot of setup or expense. Something that needs a subscription or special equipment can be a burden.

Add a short, kind note, and keep the receipt in case the gift needs to be exchanged. If you are stuck, a useful consumable such as good coffee, tea, chocolate or a nice candle, wrapped well, is almost never wrong.

After you draw, the private reveal screen has a Need a gift idea? button. It shows one general idea at a time from this list, filtered by small, medium or generous, and an Another idea button for the next one. The ideas never use or send who you drew, and nothing is stored. Only you see your own screen when you use pass the phone.

New to Secret Santa? Read how to organise a Secret Santa. Setting a limit first? See how to choose a budget. Prefer not to collect emails? See how to run a Secret Santa without email. In Australia or New Zealand, the Kris Kringle generator does the same job.